We Are Different

1. Girls want relationship and cooperation, boys want status and power.
2. Women value relationship, men value work. So, if a women is unhappy in her relationship, she cant concentrate on her work. If a man unhappy at work, he cant focus on relationship.
3. a woman leaves a man not because she is unhappy with what he can provide, but because she is emotionally unfulfilled.
4. in being wrong, a man considers himself a failure because he has not been able to do his job properly. [men hates criticism]
5. why men hide their emotions? For men, becoming emotional is seen as being out of control.
6. men hate advices. don't offer a man advice unless he asks for it. 
7. why men offer solutions? Talking about her problems is how a woman gets relief from stress. But, she wants to be heard, not fixed.
8. why stress women talk. for a woman, sharing problems with her friends is a sign of trust and friendship.
9. why stress men won't talk. ................
10. when they are both stressed. men need to understand that hen a woman is stressed, she wants to talk, and all he needs to do is listens, not to offer solution.
11. when a woman feels hurt, she shuts off. If a woman shuts off, there's trouble brewing and it's time for deep discussion. If a man shuts off, let him do it, he'll be fine.
12. women love to talk
13. men talk silently to themselves.
14. women think aloud.
15. when a man is silent, it's easy for a woman to start feeling unloved.
16. if a woman is talking to you a lot, she likes you.if not, you are in trouble.
17. women are indirect, men are direct.
18. women talk emotively, men are literal.

from this book, i learnt many things to understand the differences between male and female. yes, we are different. if u want to know more, read it by yourself okay. ;-)

we must understand, we are different in many ways, for instance, the way we thought and behave. Apa yang female fikir tidak sama dengan apa yang male fikir. kerana perbezaan inilah, kita perlu bertolak ansur. perlu saling memahami. 

i dont want to explain more.. baca, hayati dan faham.

why i liked this book? Because it is about our daily situation. we need to interact with both gender. we also can understand and observe the differences after this. ;-)

lelaki

• penyelesai masalah
• tidak mudah ikut perasaan
• ego
• pelindung
• tidak suka akui silap, tidak suka dinasihati
• sukakan pangkat dan kuasa
• tidak bercakap banyak
• men can't do more than one thing at a time
• lebih suka menyelesaikan masalah sendiri-akan menyendiri, tidak suka diganggu
• tidak suka shopping bersama wanita
• tidak akn menangis di hadapan org
• tidak suka berkongsi masalah
• thick skinned
• tidak alert 

perempuan

• mudah buat keputusan ikut perasaan
• sensitif, 
• love talking, non stop
• suka bercakap dan menceritakan segalanya kpd reliable person
• multi task, can do many things at a time
• suka shopping
• thin skinned
• alert

ini sahaja yang boleh disenaraikan. this book is very amazing!